I October, 2015
The day when I just break up my friendship with my very close
friend, and the reason for the breakup was ,a confusion , which was bought my
another friends of ours.
As she was arrogant to me while the talk, so was I , and due to
the rude talk between ous. And not realizing or listening to the points, which
was the main reason for the break up.
I just left talking with her, and have just deleted her number
from my phone, but ofcourse I couldn’t delete her number from my mind.
Which was saved as a memory in my mind.
As the day passes away , I planned to just change my number, I
know it was a not good decision to be taken. As I have already changed four
number in the last four months, and due to this , I have been scolded by my
parents. “KI KITNA NUMBER CHANGE KARTA HAI TUM AUR KAHE”, I have the same
repeated answer to give back , tower ka problem tha who sim ke saath .
But at last I changed my number, and this time I thought not to
distribute the number, as I used to do.This time I only gave the number to my
parents and my close ones.
I just wanted to move forward in my life, and concentrate on my
work and my future, par log kehtey hai na kehna aasaan hai aur karna muskil,
mere saath bhi kuch aesa hi hua. I used to plan but was unable to execute.
Then my brother ,he was my friend too ,as when ever I used to get
tensed or worried, I used to discuss the matter with my brother , and asked him
for the solution. He used to tell me start focusing on your carrier , plan and
execute the things you want to do. Work hard , study, because study and
knowledge doesn’t get waste. It just enhances with the passes of the time.
My brother was a very big inspiration for me , as he used to show
me right path and increases my will power too.
After few months of passes, I received a text message in my
facebook, which was of the same girl, which I thought to forget. I believe
every people who come in our life , come for a reason , and has a part to play
in our life, for realising our mistakes, and making ous familiar with what is
life.
Life has many chapters, every chapter has certains character,
which we meet in our day today life, and get experienced, experienced may be
good and bad, some gives us happiness and other sorrow. And so it is said also
life has two taste ,one is sweet and other is sour.
I have met many people in my life, and get to know everyone has
different thought and feeling. And so are the friends forms , whose thoughts
matches with the other , they become friends.
As I said before , life is a play , which contains many characters
with different roles, each has a lessons to teach us, to get experienced, in
order, to just move forward in life.
I have many friends, which includes my seniors in my office, few
just teaches us how to grow and success in life , and how to just adjust with
the situation, and few are their who just says ki what you did was right , and
few are ……..who says , how to just improve on that.
Its very had for everyone , to just decide which person suggestion
is right or wrong? And this is the stage which makes us perfect and imperfect .
Because the decision, we take that time by listening other
thoughts makes the type of character in lifes.
We should listen to other thoughts, but should do what’s basically
shoots us, means to listens other thoughts and to just take good one of that ,
because every person thoughts differs, at the last it is up to us to take the
decision , and move forward in life , and the decision which we, take or we can
say the direction we choose to move forward, makes the type or the character to
plays.
Every one has chance to become rich and to get success in ,life ,
whether it be the case of cracking iitjee or the cat exam , whats matters is
the decision, which we take(the steps) which we take to just move.
You all have listen and noticed in papers and blogs that a poor
family , a riskhaw wala daughter , or son has just scored first rank or top at
cbse or cracked iit jee.
Its because the path , the direction the choose for it.
Few have thoughts that rich people have all comforts , that’s why
they just don’t realise the value of top(rank) and all . and poor peoples have
many difficulties(huddles) in their life, and their children just sees the
conditions, and just get motivated to study ,
But this is not the case always , its correct but not fully,
as it depends on the candidates will power, and hard work , I told you before
about the direction(which basically matters , the kind of person we become).
